Dating with Detachment: A Spiritual Approach to Love

Love is meant to be freeing, yet so often, it becomes a space of attachment, expectation, and fear. Many of us enter relationships seeking security, validation, or a sense of completion, believing that another person will fulfill the missing pieces of ourselves. But love—real, aligned, soul-centered love—cannot thrive in attachment.

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Lindsay Boulden
Reclaim Your Time

We are often taught that being financially savvy requires budgeting our finances down to the penny. This concept is incredibly valuable as it helps us understand where our money is going and enables us to set goals for a prosperous future. However, what if I told you that the aspect of our lives that truly needs budgeting is not our finances, but rather our time? Time is our most precious commodity - a gift of immeasurable worth that we can offer to others and ourselves.

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New Year, Know Me

With the welcoming of the new year, comes the old phrase “New Year, New Me.” Personally, I am not a fan of the phrase. New Year, yes. New Me, not so much. While I appreciate the hope that the new year brings, I don’t believe that the idea of changing yourself with every new year is a good one.

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What We Know To Be True

Most of us have many beliefs about ourselves. We label ourselves as not smart enough, not pretty enough, not successful enough, too short, our noses too big, we talk too loud, always late, not fit enough …but none of these statements are facts. These statements are beliefs and opinions that we have assigned to ourselves based on the assumptions and judgments of others, that we have blindly accepted as truths.

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Take Up Space

She wanted to completely fill a space, she wanted to become bigger than she had ever imagined. The size she wanted wasn’t physical, it was the metaphysical idea of taking up space, of sharing her energy.

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Her Awakening

She sat for a while waiting. She wasn’t sure what she was waiting for, but she sat still, deathly quiet and seemingly immobile. There was a silent resolve at that moment. For all of these years, she had been waiting for something to shift. She was waiting to feel like herself. But did she know who herself was?

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Screw the Standards

Thinking of this makes me wonder how many of our body image issues were shaped by the opinion of others? Moreso, how many of us are constantly running towards or away from how we believe other people see us?

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Lindsay Boulden
Happiness Over Ego

I have been privy to so many good talks. Talks that have not only made me question myself, but they’ve also pushed me to reevaluate my thoughts, or even given me the ever-famous Oprah “A-ha moment.” But out of all of the memorable conversations that I have had, the one that sticks out to me the most was a late-night heart-to-heart, had in Hawaii with a group of girlfriends.

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